In An America I Don't Recognize, Boston Is Still Home

“Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed, to me:
I lift my lamp beside the golden door.”

Sunday I joined over 15,000 Bostonians to protest the most recent executive order issued by our current president to limit access of Muslim immigrants from seven nations into our country.

We gathered near the Kahlil Gibran Memorial in the city’s beautiful and historic Copley Square. It was a fitting gathering place, as Gibran himself came to the US as a Lebanese immigrant over a century ago. An exceptional artist, writer, and philosopher, Gibran wrote and illustrated his most famous book, The Prophet, in Boston.

Ringing through my head were those words from the Emma Lazarus poem “The New Colossus.” The poem — written in 1883 to raise money for the construction of the pedestal of the Statue of Liberty, and mounted inside that monument today — has become emblematic of an America that opens her doors outward to the world.

Though America has a complicated history when it comes to immigration, it is still seen by many as a place where people from across the globe and from diverse backgrounds are welcomed and accepted.

Boston has a long, rich history as a place where those who were escaping enslavement came for safety; those fleeing the famine in Ireland came to make homes for themselves; it is a city where people from the Caribbean have emigrated and established roots that are deeply embedded in our city. Boston has been a place where people have come from countries in Asia and Africa, from Viet Nam to the Cape Verde Islands, to make new beginnings for themselves and for their families.

In 1764, Founding Father Samuel Adams nicknamed Boston the “Athens of America” – and we remain a place where new immigrants come to study , share their skills and talents. We know that the diversity of thought and experiences drive innovation, and enhance our shared American experience. We see it every day in our colleges and universities, our premier medical facilities, our cutting edge research facilities and world-class museums and institutions.

So. it was no surprise to me that thousands of us were out on Sunday afternoon standing in solidarity and protesting this egregious act by the nation’s 45th president to limit access to the opportunities that benefit us all.

This is not the America I know; but it is indeed my Boston, and we will continue to protest to ensure that the rights of all are protected and ensured.

“Give me your tired, your poor,
Your huddled masses yearning to breathe free,
The wretched refuse of your teeming shore.
Send these, the homeless, tempest-tossed, to me:
I lift my lamp beside the golden door.”

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The 'We Are Joy' Photo Series Challenges How We See The Black Experience

Black joy matters, and a new photo project is bringing that idea to the forefront in a brilliant way.

The “We Are Joy” series, created by Brooklyn-based photographer Laurent Chevalier, consists of intimate portraits of black millennials. Each portrait is accompanied by a personal story from the subject, recalling a happy moment in their lives when being black was the key, positive element to their joy. 

It isn’t always easy to be black in America, or in the world, for that matter. After the election, and with the rise of racial, social and political tension in the air, Chevalier was trying to think of ways to counteract the visible, palpable struggles of black life. How, Chevalier wondered, could he combat the negative narrative of the black experience?

“I thought about some of the more obvious ways, such as protesting, teaching, reporting or organizing, but I also thought of other impactful ways to support and involve myself,” the photographer told The Huffington Post.

“You can only really keep working when you are whole enough to work… and it’s hard to be effective if you are broken down. So in order to maintain ourselves, our sanity and health, I felt that we needed to really draw upon the experiences, the joys and the successes that we have individually and collectively.”

In January, Chevalier decided to embark upon the photo project, with the aim to demonstrate and discuss the ways in which it’s “dope to be black.” 

“I was intrigued by the idea of black joy in story form, because when someone tells a story you relate to, you can’t help but be impacted by it,” Chevalier explains.

“Black joy is contagious, especially when you can relate to it. Then adding to that our culture of oral history, I thought it would be a great way to present this idea.”

Most of the subjects in the series are Chevalier’s friends or friends of friends. The joyful stories they share range from one woman’s first “big chop” to a moment of fellowship and solidarity of everyone dancing to an old school jam at a party. For each portrait, Chevalier photographed his subjects as they told their stories, in order to capture the spark of their memories. The result: a collection of photos and stories forming a vibrant mosaic of black joy. 

Centering a series on the positivity and beauty of the black experience, even amidst the struggles, is a political act. For Chevalier, the idea of art as resistance is a powerful one.  

“I see this project as resistance against this current [political] climate, because at the heart of many of the issues facing our community are questions of identity and value, both within and without,” Chevalier says.

“Affirming the importance of our memories, reminding ourselves of our joy, these are aspects of this project that help fuel further resistance.”

The photographer plans to continue collecting stories and creating images, drawing from an even larger and more diverse group of black people. In addition to the series, Chevalier is also working on a book project, as well as a collaboration with writer and playwright Cyrus Aaron on creating dialogue on black identity, with two pop up discussions and photo presentations in New York scheduled later this month. 

And for the rest of Black History Month, he will be sharing a new portrait and story for the “We Are Joy” series every day on Okayplayer.

Check out some photos and stories from the series below: 

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Love Isn’t Something We Say, It’s A Way We Behave.

As the world reels from President Trump’s disaster of a press conference earlier today the state of facts are now (somehow?) in question. The ideas of love, inclusion, and identity politics have been thrown out in favor of a repressive authoritarian agenda. This strange state of affairs can easily cause a dizzying reality crisis for many people but we’re hear to tell you that there is hope.

We know it sounds cliché but keep resisting. There’s already incredible movements out there like the upcoming March For Science, role models like Killer Mike, and the comedy of Saturday Night Live. If we channel the progressive things that we love, we can use that love as a weapon to empower us against the politics of fear.

YouTuber Dax is here to preach the good word of love with this new spoken word video. He urges viewers to consider the implications of the emotion and that a commitment to the passionate pursuit of change can have a profound impact. He urges viewers that, yes, we are the way forward.

Reject Donald Trump’s irrational politics of fear. Don’t fall victim to the ideas being perpetrated around Washington. The new administration is scared of change, scared of difference, and scared of you. Show them you’re not afraid by embracing their ignorance with love and inclusion. Love isn’t something we say, it’s a way we behave and love trumps hate.

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This 97-Year-Old Has Provided Free Barber School Courses For 57 Years

Alabama barber Isaac White, Sr. probably knows more about shape-ups than your flyest uncle.

The Mississippi-born 97-year-old has been cutting hair since 1944 when he began his barber business with nothing more than a chair in a shoe shine parlor.

As White’s business grew, young people began asking him how they could become barbers. So in 1960, he established Barber College in Mobile, Alabama. The courses are free-of-charge and provide students with a barbers’ license upon completion of the program (under the condition they secure a job).

White was featured in Allstate’s “Worth Telling” campaign, which pays tribute to little-known black change-makers throughout Black History Month. But the campaign isn’t the first to recognize White’s dedication to Mobile: a street was named after him in the town in 2015. 

Hear more about White’s story in the video above.

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What Stopped You From Seeing 'Moonlight'?

Look up “Moonlight” online, and you’ll be overwhelmed by what you find.

On Rotten Tomatoes, a website that aggregates movie reviews, “Moonlight” is in a three-way tie for the highest rated film released in 2016, with a 98 percent approval rating. It’s hard to imagine the immense critical praise being heaped on the film could be any more overwhelming, considering the few small number of negative reviews coming from places like The National Review.

The Philadelphia Inquirer called “Moonlight” “a true American masterpiece and one of the best films of the decade.” The Miami Herald described it as “Miami’s first bonafide movie masterpiece.” The Washington Post labeled it a “perfect film.” The Wall Street Journal went with the term “masterpiece ― an overused word, but not the wrong one.” The Toronto Star said it was “an entirely fresh example of the power that great movies can exert on our lives,” and The Toronto Sun argued it’s “so good it may restore your faith in cinema.” 

The New York Times’ A.O. Scott asked more simply, “Is This the Year’s Best Movie?” And it just might be. The film already took home Best Motion Picture – Drama at the Golden Globes in January, and it’s up for eight awards at the 89th Academy Awards later this month ― Best Picture, Directing, Writing (Adapted Screenplay), Cinematography, Music (Original Score), Actor in a Supporting Role and Actress in a Supporting Role. That’s tied with “Arrival” for the second most nominations of this year, and only trails the Academy-tailored LA-based musical “La La Land.”

Critics love “Moonlight,” as does Hollywood. So why aren’t people seeing it?

The film has only pulled in $20 million since it was widely released in November. That ranks last of the seven films from 2016 with the highest ratings on Rotten Tomatoes. It makes sense that some of the other movies ― like “Zootopia,” “La La Land,” “Arrival” and “The Jungle Book” ― would out perform “Moonlight” many times over. But Casey Affleck’s “Manchester by the Sea” has taken home $45 million so far, more than double “Moonlight.” The Western crime thriller “Hell or High Water” has taken home $27 million. In fact, of the films released within the last year, “Moonlight” ranks 106th at the box office. More people even saw “Zoolander 2.”

There are simple reasons that explain why people haven’t shown much interest in seeing one of the most well-regarded movies in years. The film doesn’t boast anything close to a bona fide movie star. Made for less than $5 million, it’s not the kind of movie that convinces readers it must be seen in theaters, either. And it’s clear before you see it that the film will be difficult to watch.

But many other films that have fit that type of criteria have, nevertheless, performed better at the box office than “Moonlight.” One year before “Moonlight,” for example, the somber low-budget film “Brooklyn” pulled in $38 million domestically. 

Here is where it feels necessary to address what “Moonlight” is about: a gay, black boy named Chiron, born into extreme poverty in the projects of Miami.

Chiron’s world is a hopeless one. Small and shy, he has little to nothing in terms of structural support. His mother is addicted to crack cocaine. His father is nowhere to be found. At school, only one other child shows even the faintest of interest in him. On the way home, he is harassed or ignored. Inside his small disheveled apartment, he must fill the bathtub with water from the kitchen sink just to clean his body.

His mother, wrapped in the throes of drug addiction, has lost the capacity to love him. The only two people who seem to care about Chiron are a drug dealer and his girlfriend, who let him stay in their home when he has nowhere else to go. Sometimes, still embarrassed of himself, he sleeps on the train, or heads to the beach ― alone.

Chiron’s world is also one white Americans know exist, but have a tendency, whether conscious or subconscious, to try to avoid thinking about. It is uncomfortable, especially for wealthy white Americans, to admit that a boy like Chiron is out there right now, in the richest country in the world, alone and scared. It is even more uncomfortable to grapple with the fact that a gay, black boy could start life so far behind everyone else. It is sad, and hard, and so much easier to go see Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone frolic in the hills of Los Angeles.

Just like Gosling’s Sebastian and Stone’s Mia, Chiron is fictional. But Chiron’s situation is not. Today, one in five children in the U.S. live in poverty. Among black children, that number is almost two in five. Those are shameful statistics. But far more shameful is our own willingness to ignore the people who turn into them. 

For people lucky enough to be born into middle-class two-parent households on up, it will always be impossible to truly understand what it’s like to be hungry, or frightened ― to not have someone to turn to, or to laugh with. It will always be uncomfortable to realize how many of our country’s problems can have a single face in boys and girls like Chiron ― children born victims of homophobia, and racism, and bullying, and poverty, and drug addiction, and under-funded public schools. 

These children, particularly gay children of color, are easy to forget about, because they live on the periphery of American society and culture. And the movies like “Moonlight,” which try to give them voice, are still so few and far between that they can feel foreign to white Americans unsure if they’ll be able to relate. 

But there is value in trying. 

The news can make you think about the world beyond you, but movies like “Moonlight” can make you feel it. Roger Ebert once said, “Movies are the most powerful empathy machine in all the arts. When I go to a great movie I can live somebody else’s life for a while. I can walk in somebody else’s shoes. I can see what it feels like to be a member of a different gender, a different race, a different economic class, to live in a different time, to have a different belief.”

With “Moonlight,” the empathy machine is kicked into overdrive. Chiron’s fear, his silence, his exhaustion, and his quiet need for help can teach us things the news can’t. “Moonlight” is not a universal film, and that’s the point: It transports you to a world, leaves you there, then brings you back changed ― a roaring engine of an empathy machine that lets you, if for a brief moment, see the world through the eyes of someone other than yourself. 

Through Chiron, director Barry Jenkins and his wondrous empathy machine whittle political concepts down to the tangible. Discussions of America’s great ladder of opportunity seem trite compared to the impossible hurdles someone like Chiron must overcome just to survive in America, much less thrive. Chiron’s world is a hard one, lacking in the societal support necessary to overcome homophobia, racism, the war on drugs, and a depleted school system all at the same time. And still, you find, there is kindness in the world awaiting him, however small and rare.

When we go to the movies, there is an understandable desire to seek the escape made available through the La La Lands of the world ― fantastical moments of joy that temporarily let us forget ourselves. But let us also not forget that there are problems bigger than our own, which we must try and solve together for the children that will be born into the silence of tomorrow. 

What stopped you from seeing “Moonlight”? Was it because you don’t want to face, for two hours, what some children face for a lifetime?

Or even worse, was it because you don’t care?

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He Cheated. Now His Ex-Girlfriend Has Some Heartbreaking Questions

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Get ready to have your heart broken. 

In a new, viral video from The Scene, former couple Kourtney and Leonard sit down to discuss their relationship and how it was impacted by his infidelity. It gets so intense that at one point, Kourtney has to walk away to gather her thoughts and grab some tissues. 

“I don’t think you’re a bad guy because you cheated,” Kourtney says when she returns. “I forgave you.”

“Why?” Leonard asks. 

“Because you’re my best friend.” 

If you learn anything from this tearjerker of a clip, it should be this: Don’t cheat on your girlfriend. And if do cheat on your girlfriend and agree to film your post-breakup conversation, be prepared for the whole Internet to take her side. Team #hurtbae for life.

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Young Black Woman's Thoughts: President Trumps Inauguration

I had lunch yesterday (Thursday before the inauguration) with a colleague and mentor. In the midst of catching up and asking how her teenage daughters are doing, a story was recounted that on Christmas my colleague’s mother (and daughters’ grandmother) asked the oldest daughter (15 years old) how she was feeling about the future. And her response even at the tender age of 15 directly and indirectly sum up the thoughts of many right now, “I am trying to just make it through the next 4 years”.

As I watched the live footage of President Obama leaving the Oval Office for the last time on CNN with Uncle Joe (yes we millennials or at least among my network think of Vice President Biden as our amazing quirky uncle) and Dr. Biden in tow, I honestly wanted to cry with a mix of feelings. I am sure this sentiment most likely reflects the thoughts and feelings of many today.

But the real question is at the crux of my colleague’s 15 year old daughter’s statement, “how do WE make it through the next 4 years?”

This in all honesty is a difficult question to answer because I think no one not even newly elected President Trump thought would ever have to be truly asked. And possibly my mindset and way of navigating my emotional feelings and thoughts, and even but more practically my actions future and present now that Donald Trump has taken the oath of office will change, but these are my present thoughts on President Donald Trump taking office today.

Let me first congratulate President Trump, yes I said congratulate and anyone can add my name to the #UncleTom lists out there if they want, but the man won. Despite the inflammatory nature of many of his comments that I think offended just about every sub-population of the American people. Despite rumored and some confirmed reports of Russian interference, and despite the fact that honestly and truly in his heart I do not think Donald Trump wanted to win the highest oath of office in the word, he won. So whatever he said, whatever he did, it resonated with enough of the American people that he is now being sworn in as our 45th President.

After I congratulate President Trump because honestly that is all I have for the man I affectionately turn to my fellow millennials because as my mom put it, “what he does isn’t going to affect my generation (Baby Boomers) too much, but yours…that’s what I am worried about.” And so am I! And so should you be, afraid.

But also challenged; after I wallowed (and I am being literal) for several days after Donald Trump won the election my mindset changed to, “BET!”. I felt challenged, I felt this was one of those instances where maybe many of us, me included shied away from having strong political views. From voicing these views, from galvanizing others, from standing up for others that may not be able to, and most importantly from sharing my unique talents to further not just my family, friends, self and at times my wallet, but my community. And in this “BET!” moment I realized that despite the fact that our beloved, and gosh are they beloved First Family and fearless 44th President takes leave that we missed something when he won. Something that as lastly as every ounce of his days in office and legacy was the introduction to the power of grassroots movements and additionally the power in minority communities coming together. Grassroots organizations have been long touted with elevating President Obama to the White House, however that term, grassroots, go to the South Side that Michelle is fondly from or Cascade where many Atlanta rappers hail, they have no idea what grassroots means! So thus the foundation of what fondly helped us scream HOPE and CHANGE in 2008 and 2012 were never fully understood outside of the man and face we attached to the movement. And I may not have the official definition but the way I think of grassroots is an authentic home grown movement that draws people in and informs them. Well shoot we can do that!

This is exactly the approach Republican party replicated after President Obama took office in 2008; a grassroots movement to emphasize the disenfranchisement of the working White population. And this movement whether we were aware it was taking place or not, is what ultimately got Donald Trump elected.

And again kudos…because that was not Trump’s plan or was it? To speak to a population that was rarely televised as experiencing plight. And just in that act of their struggle real or imaginary being left from the public eye created more disgust for government, minorities, women, and anyone else. Just as a child in preschool is mad his classmates perceivably received more attention and graham crackers from the teacher. But is that child’s plight and feelings not real?! Well yes! While Trumps presidency begins wrought with controversy, I believe I speak for many that believe that there needs to be a better focus on everyone’s struggles. But just as in school when it’s not ok to bite back, which is what I consider this to be as a last ditch effort by rich staunch hard Republicans to gain power by any means necessary, even backing newly elected President Trump.

But in one of my favorite lines uttered by First Lady Michelle Obama to date, “when they go low we go high”.

So “bet”, Donald Trump is our president for 4 years. Baring his Republican colleagues decide to put a stop to his inflammatory Cabinet picks, shady business deals and all around foul mouth, none of which has yet to be considered illegal or even piss many people in power off, we have to not only deal but we to go high! We have tweeze out the positive and powerful aspects of the still growing legacy of President Obama and his family. We have to confront our demons and fears so that we can lend our talents to not just our direct networks but to others far and in between, and lastly we have to embrace community and find ways to be prepared when the our voices are to be heard on local levels, state levels and national levels to ensure we do not cower and hide because a bigot, racist and narcissist and all his friends have taken over the highest office of our nation. We have to prepare to take it back and to not just take it back and do better, but do our best.

We will survive these next 4 years, just like those fateful days freshly out of a relationship, we cannot see that far into the future to know it…but we will survive, we will make it. What I challenge you and me to do is not just make it, not just survive but stand up, go high, get in a “BET!” mindset, memorialize President Obama’s legacy by doing more, giving more and being more.

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Chance The Rapper: I'm 'Tired' Of Chicago Being Seen As A 'Third World Country'

Chance the Rapper has a few thoughts regarding President Donald Trump’s plans to fix the “horrendous situation” in Chicago.

During a joint interview with Chicago Bulls star Jimmy Butler for ESPN’s “The Undefeated,” the Grammy Award winner responded to Trump’s tweet that he’d “send in the Feds” over the city’s soaring homicide rate ― which he tweeted last month ― by expressing his frustrations with the city’s frequent negative perception.

“I hope he’s coming in to do some type of federal overturn of our state and city budgets in terms of schooling and housing,” he said. “I’m tired of n***as talkin’ about Chicago like it’s a Third World country. Like, that it’s not a place of booming business with a very successful downtown and all types of new development.”

In a video portion of the interview Chance, who has previously addressed Chicago’s gun violence issues, says he hopes the president’s plans will benefit the city’s teachers union.

“Chicago’s problem has always felt like a minority problem,” he said in a video clip from the interview. “He sounds like he was going to go to war with Chicago. I can only expect that he means he’s gonna, from a federal level, help out with the teachers’ strike and the union issues. I don’t like to think that he said what he meant or meant what he said.” 

Read more of Chance the Rapper’s interview here.

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Kareem Abdul Jabbar Calls Out The Race Issues In 'La La Land'

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Kareem Abdul-Jabbar has shared some incredibly poignant thoughts on the way Oscar-favorite “La La Land” handles its black characters. 

The critically-acclaimed film stars Emma Stone as an aspiring actress who falls in love with Sebastian (Ryan Gosling), a struggling musician with dreams of opening his own jazz club one day. 

In an op-ed for The Hollywood Reporter published Wednesday, Abdul-Jabbar praises the film for being “bold, daring and deserving of all its critical and financial success,” but points out that it has a few weaknesses, specifically “its portrayal of jazz, romance and people of color.”

The NBA icon thinks the film’s biggest fault is in its only main black character Keith (John Legend), a jazz musician who has found success in the mainstream. 

“No, I don’t think the film needs more black people,”Abdul-Jabbar explains.

“Writer-director Damien Chazelle should tell the story as he sees fits with whatever ethnic arrangement he desires. However, it is fair to question his color wheel when it involves certain historical elements — such as jazz.”

Abdul-Jabbar goes on to add that he’s “disturbed” by the fact that the only major black character in the film is portrayed as “the musical sellout,” while Gosling’s character is seen as more authentic and more passionate about jazz.

“It’s not that a black man can’t be the sellout or the drug dealer, it’s just that they shouldn’t be if they’re the only prominent black character in the story,” he says.

“Whether it’s intentional or unintentional, that sends a bigoted message rippling through our society.”

“La La Land” is currently the favorite to win Best Picture at the upcoming Academy Awards, where it leads with 14 nominations. 

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New Dads Get A Little Too Competitive Over Their Kids' Achievements

It’s no secret that parents can get competitive about their kids’ achievements. Dad vlogger La Guardia Cross showed what happens when that sense of competition gets out of hand.

In his “Daddy vs. Daddy” comedy video, Cross and his friend Beleaf let a simple conversation about their kids’ potty training progress, counting abilities and eating habits spiral into a full-blown hyperbole battle.

Watch the video above to see how hilariously fast it escalates.

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